well.........
i was jus wonderin, as to y does it feel BAD to be left out ? i mean u r left out of something for some valid reason for the better result / efficient working of a thing & still one feels bad........ y? is it because our ego is crushed or maybe jus that we consider ourselves to be the best for the job ? maybe it is jus one of the many problems mankind has - considering oneself to be the best for the paritcular job. maybe we make up our mind to believe that we are the most suited for a job. maybe NOT , coZ sometimes u know as to that the other person is in fact more capable of doing that "thing". or maybe we make it a point of jouissance or instant gratification. & thats why maybe it hurts when some1 tells u that u can NOT have that. & if this is true then, maybe it is also the reason it hurts when you make an elaborate plan( of having fun with friends, of workin & achieving something, of movies, dinner etc ) & it really depresses one, when the plan has to be crapped out coZ of some reason. but then, when u think of it, when u r left out it hurts coZ ur PLAN getrs crapped, as in one thinks some stuff & plans out somethin when one eXpects to be part of somethin. so does it mean we should STOP plannin ? or jus give it less importance in life ? or maybe jus let things be ? how does it make any difference when one feels low ? what is feeling low anyways ? i mean how do u eXplain the feelin of sinkin in ur heart, when one does nt gets what one wants....... when u dont feel like doin anythin & yet u r restless like hell ..........
....................................................(maybe will talk bout it neXt time round)
i dunno !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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hmm..... the thing u r talking abt here is something which each one of us goes through almost eevryday in life. been left out could be in so many things in life, left out of a joke, of a party, of a serious piece of info, left out by ur love at the time of need, left out of family in serious discussions coz v r small yet, left out of class coz we were needed elsewhr, left out of a grp coz mayb something else better is waiting ahead.
no one can ever have a reason to say, to understand or to feel wht happens when u r left OUT!!!
a feeling of sinking in heart n yet restlessness is nothing but our anxiousness to know more abt the things we dont as in in this case, just coz we were left out of somehing, we wanna be a part of it more n more. just coz some1 said us NO, we wanna be thr moreever.
been left out cannot be good or bad, it can just be right or wrong. something true to us can not be so for others.
one doesnt feel low on been left out coz ego is crushed or coz we feel v can do the job better, but also coz we know wht others r doin is not right. how many times has it hapend to us, that in a grp of 50, every1 except else is wrong n yet coz of majority make a sub culture amongst themselves of been right. wht does a person do at such time, think he is wrong, change the way he thinks or behvaes or just LET IT GO.
and personally speaking, whst the use of been at a place whr ppl dont recognise wht u r or wht u can do (or mayb i should put it sayihg, they dont want u thr coz their identites can b crushed with our presence coz we ARE better than them), infact y not spend more time in doing wht we like, doing wht ppl arnd us who love us a lot like.
y not live a life n do things that would keep our frnds, family n loved ones happy!!!
we are all at a particular place for some aim n ambition, and these r the times when we know that we need to get back to our own heart, look deep into it and find out our own personal dreams n achieve them, do what oneself loves.
and mayb also, in near future a person realises that been left out at one stage in life has actually helped him in gaining much mor ein future!!!!
i dunno if these were the reasons u were anytime looking for, but this is all i could feel or say.
we did talk abt it b4, but writing it here was also imp to me, and yes, whosoever leaves us off in this world from newhr, we know that we would never be left out for anything from our loved ones.....
let things flow the way they r....thts the only way to be hapy n achieve wht one wants...
i am always thr for u dear...!!!
hmm..... the thing u r talking abt here is something which each one of us goes through almost everyday in life. been left out could be in so many things in life, left out of a joke, of a party, of a serious piece of info, left out by ur love at the time of need, left out of family in serious discussions coz v r small yet, left out of class coz we were needed elsewhr, left out of a grp coz mayb something else better is waiting ahead.
no one can ever have a reason to say, to understand or to feel wht happens when u r left OUT!!!
a feeling of sinking in heart n yet restlessness is nothing but our anxiousness to know more abt the things we dont as in in this case, just coz we were left out of somehing, we wanna be a part of it more n more. just coz some1 said us NO, we wanna be thr moreever.
been left out cannot be good or bad, it can just be right or wrong. something true to us can not be so for others.
one doesnt feel low on been left out coz ego is crushed or coz we feel v can do the job better, but also coz we know wht others r doin is not right. how many times has it hapend to us, that in a grp of 50, every1 except else is wrong n yet coz of majority make a sub culture amongst themselves of been right. wht does a person do at such time, think he is wrong, change the way he thinks or behvaes or just LET IT GO.
and personally speaking, whst the use of been at a place whr ppl dont recognise wht u r or wht u can do (or mayb i should put it sayihg, they dont want u thr coz their identites can b crushed with our presence coz we ARE better than them), infact y not spend more time in doing wht we like, doing wht ppl arnd us who love us a lot like.
y not live a life n do things that would keep our frnds, family n loved ones happy!!!
we are all at a particular place for some aim n ambition, and these r the times when we know that we need to get back to our own heart, look deep into it and find out our own personal dreams n achieve them, do what oneself loves.
and mayb also, in near future a person realises that been left out at one stage in life has actually helped him in gaining much mor ein future!!!!
i dunno if these were the reasons u were anytime looking for, but this is all i could feel or say.
we did talk abt it b4, but writing it here was also imp to me, and yes, whosoever leaves us off in this world from newhr, we know that we would never be left out for anything from our loved ones.....
let things flow the way they r....thts the only way to be hapy n achieve wht one wants...
i am always thr for u dear...!!!
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